August,29th,2011
monday
Mood: depressed
Dear,journal
I dont understand how i got to this point its like everything is going wrong. Today was my 4 year old sisters first day of school. Her and my daughter were sopposed to start school together today if i would have gotten custady. And it broke me watching my mom take her to the bus stop and takeing all those pictures of her getting on. Something i will never be able to do thanks to my ex husband. What did i do so wrong to deserve this? sometimes i just wanna call it quits and just throw the towel in and give up.
And the things im doing to cope just make me feel worse and hate myself more like im going to meet that old geezer tommarow to go on a shopping spree which isnt free i have to give him something in return i have to be his gf and everything which is really nasty at least im taken my sister with me so im hopen that will mean we cant do much. And i also told my ex fiance we could get back together and we have talked and i think i really do want to but im afraid of hurting him now god when will my life get any easier i know my dad would flip the fuck out about the hole sugar daddy thing thats for sure! I really dont know what to do and the hole thing is just makeing me sick to my stomach litteraly. God please help me i dont want a stupid shopping spree i just wanna get my kids back! I hate my life!!!!!!!
Monday, August 29, 2011
Sunday, August 28, 2011
~its ok to cry~
August,28th,2011
sunday
Mood: confused
Dear,journal
Alot has happened in this past couple days i havnt written well ive been sick but thats not something big. But my ex fiancee wrote me on facebook. He left me a few months ago and it broke my heart i dint think i would ever hear or see him again so i tryed pushing him to the back of my mind and tryed to forget him i thought it had worked entell yesterday and he wrote me and it brought everything back the love i felt for him the heartache i felt when he left. I remember crying alot when he left he left me the same week i lost my kids. Like two days before i lost my kids he left so it was hell. And i want to cry because i dont know what to do hell i dont even know what i feel anymore. I could always talk to him he was there and he never seemed to judge me for it. I truly loved him even know he wasnt my type i loved his personality. I loved when he would tell me how beautiful he thought i was. How he would hold me when i was upset. he was just there and now months later when im finnaly copeing with loseing my kids and he had to come back and i dont know what to do now. If i was to be honest with myself i think i still love him. And that makes me want to cry even harder not because he wont be with me cause i think he is trying but because i dont know if i can do this right now i dont know if i can trust him not to leave again.
sunday
Mood: confused
Dear,journal
Alot has happened in this past couple days i havnt written well ive been sick but thats not something big. But my ex fiancee wrote me on facebook. He left me a few months ago and it broke my heart i dint think i would ever hear or see him again so i tryed pushing him to the back of my mind and tryed to forget him i thought it had worked entell yesterday and he wrote me and it brought everything back the love i felt for him the heartache i felt when he left. I remember crying alot when he left he left me the same week i lost my kids. Like two days before i lost my kids he left so it was hell. And i want to cry because i dont know what to do hell i dont even know what i feel anymore. I could always talk to him he was there and he never seemed to judge me for it. I truly loved him even know he wasnt my type i loved his personality. I loved when he would tell me how beautiful he thought i was. How he would hold me when i was upset. he was just there and now months later when im finnaly copeing with loseing my kids and he had to come back and i dont know what to do now. If i was to be honest with myself i think i still love him. And that makes me want to cry even harder not because he wont be with me cause i think he is trying but because i dont know if i can do this right now i dont know if i can trust him not to leave again.
Thursday, August 25, 2011
~Maybe this is my second chance~
August,25th,2011
thursday
mood:down, confused
Dear,journal
When will life help me. I keep getting thrown curve balls and i dont know what will help all i want is to have my kids back thats all i desire. And here comes along today a rich old man on dateing site i was on saying he wanted to be my boyfriend mind u this guy is like in his 70's (GAG) and in return he will spoil me by giveing me all ive ever wanted. A part of me is saying Yes do it! You could get your kids back! and another part of me is disgusted at the very thought not just cause he is old and wrinkly but because i really dont feel its right this guy is gonna love me and cherish me and treat me like a queen and im gonna use him to get my kids back. I really dont know what to do. My kids are everything to me and i would do just about anything to get them back but is it really right to hurt others in the process? I keep praying for god to help me get my kids back and mabe this is him helping but i honestly dont know i dont think god would send something like this i think its just a test. And if so i may fale because im honestly thinking about doing it no matter how wrong it is all i keep seeing is my kids back in my arms and getting to see my daughter off to school and tucking my kids in bed at night again knowiing i wont have to give them back a day later the though alone is very apealing. You can see where im comeing from right? Please someone comment because i am honestly stuck in a rut and im about to tell my heart fuck you and go with my gut. I dont know mabe this is my second chance the one ive been waiting for but its also the easy way out. :( im so confused.
thursday
mood:down, confused
Dear,journal
When will life help me. I keep getting thrown curve balls and i dont know what will help all i want is to have my kids back thats all i desire. And here comes along today a rich old man on dateing site i was on saying he wanted to be my boyfriend mind u this guy is like in his 70's (GAG) and in return he will spoil me by giveing me all ive ever wanted. A part of me is saying Yes do it! You could get your kids back! and another part of me is disgusted at the very thought not just cause he is old and wrinkly but because i really dont feel its right this guy is gonna love me and cherish me and treat me like a queen and im gonna use him to get my kids back. I really dont know what to do. My kids are everything to me and i would do just about anything to get them back but is it really right to hurt others in the process? I keep praying for god to help me get my kids back and mabe this is him helping but i honestly dont know i dont think god would send something like this i think its just a test. And if so i may fale because im honestly thinking about doing it no matter how wrong it is all i keep seeing is my kids back in my arms and getting to see my daughter off to school and tucking my kids in bed at night again knowiing i wont have to give them back a day later the though alone is very apealing. You can see where im comeing from right? Please someone comment because i am honestly stuck in a rut and im about to tell my heart fuck you and go with my gut. I dont know mabe this is my second chance the one ive been waiting for but its also the easy way out. :( im so confused.
Wednesday, August 24, 2011
~im ok today~
August,24th,2011
wendsday
mood: happy, nervouse
Dear, journal
im happy and thats not normal for me. I have like a light hearted feeling inside me and its kinda wierd i like it but it kinda scares me because its not me. Im not that happy person who smiles a real smile im broken and i hate myself and my life like last night i was thinking about my ex husband and him beating on me and i felt i deserved some of it i felt there could have been something i could do that could have fixed the relationship. And i hate to say that i miss him sometimes i dont miss him hitting me and stuff but i miss what we used to be before he became abusive i know that may seem kinda silly huh missing an abusive man but i swore to myself never again will i put up with that shit from a man maye thats why i cant keep a relationship i always seem to drive them off before they can hurt me so in the end they get hurt and not me. I wish i could find my knight in shineing armor but how can i when i chase him away. I dont think i will ever find him i just cant let them in to me there good for one thing sex and sometimes they aint even good for that (small penis and what not) cough (kevin) cough. But i dont know i want to be happy but i cant let my walls down to feel it.
wendsday
mood: happy, nervouse
Dear, journal
im happy and thats not normal for me. I have like a light hearted feeling inside me and its kinda wierd i like it but it kinda scares me because its not me. Im not that happy person who smiles a real smile im broken and i hate myself and my life like last night i was thinking about my ex husband and him beating on me and i felt i deserved some of it i felt there could have been something i could do that could have fixed the relationship. And i hate to say that i miss him sometimes i dont miss him hitting me and stuff but i miss what we used to be before he became abusive i know that may seem kinda silly huh missing an abusive man but i swore to myself never again will i put up with that shit from a man maye thats why i cant keep a relationship i always seem to drive them off before they can hurt me so in the end they get hurt and not me. I wish i could find my knight in shineing armor but how can i when i chase him away. I dont think i will ever find him i just cant let them in to me there good for one thing sex and sometimes they aint even good for that (small penis and what not) cough (kevin) cough. But i dont know i want to be happy but i cant let my walls down to feel it.
Monday, August 22, 2011
~my sister~
i think i screwed up me and my sister fight alot and i hate that and i kinda let my anger get away from me and i feel hoppible afterwords like what i wrote about her today were sisters were gonna fight but i shouldnt have said what i did because honestly my sister is my best friend and she has helped me even when we fight and i hate when we fight so time to get us back together and be the best friends and sisters we should be just like coco rosie we were meant to be together not in the gay/incest way but ya u know what i mean lol anyhow amber if yer reading this i love u and im sorry for going off on such a small thing.
love sierra
~what a nice birthday....not~
august,22nd,2011
monday
mood: depressed, aggravated, tired,tearfull
Dear,journal
needless to say today is my b-day woopie fucking doo what a birthday half the peaple i care about totaly forgot and dint even wish me happy birthday and besides a few happy b-days here and there nobody treated me any different any nicer or anything and its really very depressing all i wanted for my b-day was to get to go out just me and my mom maybe my step-dad and the kids. But no i couldnt even get that kinda sad really. I mean i know the money is tight but they could have at least said well we will go out when we get paid or anything like that not this and now i want to cry its really sad and i hate it. I shouldnt be sad on my b-day and i know im being kinda selfish but we always do something on my b-day always even if its just getting a bite to eat and getting a cheap gift like last year i just got a movie and then on top of it all my sister is being a total crab ass no offence amber but yer acting like yer all that and if something isnt goig for u then who gives a shit and thats not right. And thats why im aggravated. i hate that when peaple act all stuck up like get off yer high fucking horse and take a look at reality the world does not revolve around u honey sorry to burst yer sassy little bubble and niether does mine i got more important things to worry about then u like my life my kids and what im gonna do with it.
Anyhow enough with the heavy. the kids go back to there dads wendsday and im kinda glad but kinda deppressed at the same time i mean my baby is starting school this september 6th and i wont even be there to wish her luck and it makes me wanna cry really bad. I really hate my life all i can hope for to this life is a little bit of a happy ending but i doubt it. I cant wait to get away from all this shit and focus on me.
monday
mood: depressed, aggravated, tired,tearfull
Dear,journal
needless to say today is my b-day woopie fucking doo what a birthday half the peaple i care about totaly forgot and dint even wish me happy birthday and besides a few happy b-days here and there nobody treated me any different any nicer or anything and its really very depressing all i wanted for my b-day was to get to go out just me and my mom maybe my step-dad and the kids. But no i couldnt even get that kinda sad really. I mean i know the money is tight but they could have at least said well we will go out when we get paid or anything like that not this and now i want to cry its really sad and i hate it. I shouldnt be sad on my b-day and i know im being kinda selfish but we always do something on my b-day always even if its just getting a bite to eat and getting a cheap gift like last year i just got a movie and then on top of it all my sister is being a total crab ass no offence amber but yer acting like yer all that and if something isnt goig for u then who gives a shit and thats not right. And thats why im aggravated. i hate that when peaple act all stuck up like get off yer high fucking horse and take a look at reality the world does not revolve around u honey sorry to burst yer sassy little bubble and niether does mine i got more important things to worry about then u like my life my kids and what im gonna do with it.
Anyhow enough with the heavy. the kids go back to there dads wendsday and im kinda glad but kinda deppressed at the same time i mean my baby is starting school this september 6th and i wont even be there to wish her luck and it makes me wanna cry really bad. I really hate my life all i can hope for to this life is a little bit of a happy ending but i doubt it. I cant wait to get away from all this shit and focus on me.
Sunday, August 21, 2011
~just wanna be happy~
august,21st,2011
sunday
mood: ok
Dear,journal
Im beginning to really take a look at life. There are so many things i can change to make my life so much better. And thinking about fixeing that stuff makes me happy im realizeing i cant just stand by the side and let my life pass me by i need to do what i feel is right not worrying about what others think i need to make myself happy i have spent to long trying to make everyone else happy and i realize im just makeing myself misserable and its not right. Maybe i will go to that hospital so i dont have to worry about the outside world for a while at least not entell im ready and i have worked on myself i think thats what i really need to do. I talked to my dad yesterday not my step-dad my birth father i havent talked to him in over a month and he dint come back into my life entell i was 22. He came into it a couple times when i was a baby and when i was 14 but that never lasted long i always thought i wasnt good enough but im realizeing how do i expect others to look at me as a person who is worth something when i dont even look at myself that way when i feel no self worth when i hate myself how can i expect to be loved by others?
Like i said befoire i had alot of thinking to do and ive been doing it alot im realizeing my life isnt what i want it to be i want to be a writer and a theripist and i want to make something of myself i want my kids to be proud of me. my friend kendra said something yesterday that really made me think she said what do you think your kids will think if they have to take care of u because u are to depressed to do it yourself? What do u think your kids would think and feel if u cut one time and ended up killing yourself? They wouldnt have a mother. She said "You say you care about your kids so much well how do you want them to look at you?" and it made me think i dont want them thinking i lost them cause i couldnt even take care of myself i want them to say "you know what my mom fought with everything she had to get us back, she made sure she made herself better so she could be there for us, i look up to my mom" thats what i want them to say about me and even though it will be hard at first i know this is what i need to do!
sunday
mood: ok
Dear,journal
Im beginning to really take a look at life. There are so many things i can change to make my life so much better. And thinking about fixeing that stuff makes me happy im realizeing i cant just stand by the side and let my life pass me by i need to do what i feel is right not worrying about what others think i need to make myself happy i have spent to long trying to make everyone else happy and i realize im just makeing myself misserable and its not right. Maybe i will go to that hospital so i dont have to worry about the outside world for a while at least not entell im ready and i have worked on myself i think thats what i really need to do. I talked to my dad yesterday not my step-dad my birth father i havent talked to him in over a month and he dint come back into my life entell i was 22. He came into it a couple times when i was a baby and when i was 14 but that never lasted long i always thought i wasnt good enough but im realizeing how do i expect others to look at me as a person who is worth something when i dont even look at myself that way when i feel no self worth when i hate myself how can i expect to be loved by others?
Like i said befoire i had alot of thinking to do and ive been doing it alot im realizeing my life isnt what i want it to be i want to be a writer and a theripist and i want to make something of myself i want my kids to be proud of me. my friend kendra said something yesterday that really made me think she said what do you think your kids will think if they have to take care of u because u are to depressed to do it yourself? What do u think your kids would think and feel if u cut one time and ended up killing yourself? They wouldnt have a mother. She said "You say you care about your kids so much well how do you want them to look at you?" and it made me think i dont want them thinking i lost them cause i couldnt even take care of myself i want them to say "you know what my mom fought with everything she had to get us back, she made sure she made herself better so she could be there for us, i look up to my mom" thats what i want them to say about me and even though it will be hard at first i know this is what i need to do!
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